My father was nice to others, always handed things to others, we have an extreme mother, gave birth to a dozen of kids, 8 sons. A diligent, trustworthy mother. Under such situation, you will enjoy more and more trust and family’s nurture, and in a society. In return, you are respected. This will help you understand the value of trust. Trust is honorable.
【Miles Guo’s Broadcast Highlights】May 13th, 2022 Miles Talked About His Growth Experience and How His Character of Trustworthiness Is Formed
I really think this is highly related to your parents. I was influenced by my parents, which was so important. I said it before that my mother went to other family to borrow food and flour, came back with a flat bowel. Sometimes, my mother borrowed an egg from another family, she will return them with more eggs, or gave food to other families. If you are influenced by such parents, I cannot describe it. That is why education is so important, education is the environment.
Another thing is when I was little, my father, I can basically say that you need to multiply the deeds of Lei Feng by 10 times. This is about my father. What kind of character did my father have? That is a character to please others. He could otherwise sell all of his children to please others. A characteristic to please others, this is a disease. This is good people doing good things. The bad part was it caused a lot of pain to my mother, costed my family dearly. But the good part was he allowed me to see, my father was nice to others when I was young.
He always handed things to others, we have an extreme mother, gave birth to a dozen of kids, 8 sons. A diligent, trustworthy mother. In my life, this environment was a bit of a struggle, very contradictory. According to human psychology, this is almost a torturous way to educate kids. For 99.999 percent, the kids may turn into a devil, or a bad guy, very rarely from these struggles, the insanity growing up in a divided family environment. You will find the very best thing.
My parents left my whole family, most of this is about honoring your parents. My family put a lot of weight on Guo family’s honor. I think this is very rare in the world. From this perspective, Guo’s family never took an advantage of others. Our next generation never ripped off of anybody. Second, we have an absolute respect towards women, because my family was centered around my mother. My mother was the core of our family. Therefore, I give my parents the credit for my growth.
Second, after I walked into society, you get fed by many families within a society. You cannot eat at Wang’s house today, then, steal from Wang’s family another day. You will find yourself being trapped. In the 1970s, when there was no criminal law. Everything relied on your connections with others, I’ve cherished a lot of my connections with people. My parents from my childhood memories, all the fellow villagers from Shan Dong province. They all came to help my mom, all of them, if they have a daughter, they wanted to have their daughter marry me. They all wanted me as their son-in-law.
They all trusted me, why? My parents have virtue and are trustworthy. They never messed with people, just to get goods or drinks, not like that. The villagers allowed me to have an early experience on how to connect in a society. The villagers allowed me to eat hundreds of meals, my trustworthiness earned a lot of fame. You can enjoy being trusted. They trust me wherever I go. I am not stingy. Nobody wants to deal with stingy people. Under such situation, you will enjoy more and more trust and family’s nurture, and in a society. In return, you are respected. This will help you understand the value of trust. Trust is honorable, that is not an environment where people hurt each other. That is when people would help each other.
Video Clip: CG.| Subtitle: Wen Qiu| Translator: Arthur| Proofread: Polaris| Script: lxymsg| Editor: Quentin| Publish: Little Bee